When I was 25, I believed I could change the world. At 41, I have come to the realization that I cannot change my wife, my church, or my kids, to say nothing of the world. Try as I might, I have not been able to manufacture outcomes the way I thought I could, either in my own life or other people’s. Tullian Tchividjian
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  1. The world isn't scandalized by our freedom but by our fakeness.
  2. Your pain could be God prying open your life and heart to remove a gift of His that you've been holding on to more dearly than Him.
  3. The apostle Paul claimed the Law is written on the 'fleshy tables' of the human heart (2 Cor. 3:3 KJV). What he meant are these 'shoulds' and 'shouldn'ts' are both instinctual and inescapable, part of our DNA. They are a psychological reality. We may justify...
  4. The great hope we find in the Christian faith is that God is not us.
  5. Disobedience happens not when we think too much grace but when we think too little of it
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